From Past we should take learning, not regret. Regret takes us to Past, Learning takes us to Future
Action : Make a mistake, but MOVE rather than play safe by doing nothing
What you do is a function of how you see
You and me do not need to like each other or do not need to be like each other, to be able to work together meaningfully
You & me could hold vastly different view on a matter & yet you could be right in your context, as much as I can be in my context, at the same time
Life is about Sense Making - Your world is 'inside' you !
It is not about what is happening (around) but What of what is happening, makes what sense to you, that fundamentally shapes what you do & life around you
The leadership challenge & ultimate differentiator is not about Talent deficit, but about Perspective deficit
We are neither the transactions nor their beneficiary - We are the 'space' in which the 'transactions' happen
Whatever happens is for good - What happened to you was what was to happen
Biggest barriers for your success is You; if you can get past YOU; nothing is beyond you.
Is money Reason of your pursuit or Result of your pursuit
EGO is the biggest barrier to learning
If I can contribute towards making the World greater good, my share of the Greater Good , will always be Greater than Good !
It is not about what is happening (to you) but what you do with what is happening, makes the biggest difference.
It is not what you have / what you don’t ;but what you do with what you have that defines you
Self Awareness : The more you know yourself , the less need for you to depend on other’s opinion about you
When you convert your (provider’s) ‘Advantage’ into customer’s (user’s) ‘Advantage’ is when a meaningful product is created . Essentially when ingredients you have are converted into the recipe someone needs , is when a product is created
You cannot Empower anyone, until he/s he feels empowered. Empowerment is not about ‘giving’ or ‘gifting’ it is about feeling it from inside ; you can only facilitate someone’s empowerment process
Everything or being has two components: ‘Body’ & ‘Soul’. Value is created from the symphony between ‘Body’ & ‘Soul’. Body without Soul is dead & Soul is invisible without Body ( needs body to express itself )
Choose between LABOUR & CARE for your life approach: LABOUR is a transaction , which gets ‘ paid off ‘ – no one cares to remember ; CARE is in relationship mode , if you are in care mode – no one needs to belabour on anything . Care makes you indebted to … recall your parents v/s your maid – who are you indebted to Journey in life is to progress from Labour to Care
If you can’t do much / more do less , but whatever you do , do it well . You must excel in something
Whatever you do, Lazyness cannot be a Value & Postponement cannot be a Strategy
Is Money ‘ Reason ‘ of your pursuit or ‘ Result ‘ of your pursuit. Money as a pursuit turns you into a ‘ Maid ‘ ; pursuit of a purpose leads to excellence , which fetches more money
Value is created only in a proactive mode – reactive mode / chasing makes you a ‘Servant’
To create value , you need to be ‘ AHEAD ‘ , either of Time or Asking or Expectations
When you to evolve to see no job / task as ‘ Not my Job ‘ , there is Nothing beyond you , Nothing that you can not and Nothing that can deter you
In life true wealth is measured by not what you achieve for self , but by what you create for others , by how much you added to the Peace , Joy and Happiness of the World . Are you leaving the world richer because of you , than before you is the question .
Words in themselves have no ‘meaning ‘ , they are only carriers of the meaning that we assign / attach to them . Once we realize this, we will be in pursuit of sense making , creating meaning than creating words .
Don’t Explain --- Influence, If you have done what you should not ; or if you could not do , what you should have --- don’t explain , it does not add any value as it does not alter the result. Instead focus energies on what you can of what you should do !
‘ Meaningful Engagement ‘ happens through following sequence: Desired destination -> Directed efforts -> Progressive milestones -> Self fulfillment